Things I've Really Missed

As they say, you never know how much something means to you unless you lose them. Here are some of those everyday-ordinary-things I have really missed this year:

1. Singing while driving.

2. Driving a car.

3. Being in an air-conditioned car on the way to work (and not smelling like Manila traffic).

4. Reading in a coffee shop.

5. Malling.

6. People-watching.

7. Ukay-ukay shopping.

8. Jogging. Or any physical activity for that matter.

9. Home-cooked meals.

10. Writing.

11. Getting a massage.

12. Going to the spa.

13. Salon pampering.

14. Not doing household chores.

15. Travelling.

A Little Piece of Tsokolate Heaven

One of my fondest childhood memories is waking up to a hot cup of sikwati or bowlful of champorado, on a Sunday morning. The rich taste of the tableya (cacao chocolate) immediately sends me to a very happy place.

That's why I was so happy to discover Tablea Chocolate Cafe while on Christmas holiday. All of their desserts and drinks are made from tablea! Lovely!

I've tried their Sipping Dark Chocolate (twice! I love love love it!), Champorado (of course!), Chocolate Con Churros, Choco Banana Frio, Silvanas and Tablea Custard Cake. You can really taste the delicious tablea in all of them. And the best part is, they are not too sweet, so you'll be able to finish one serving.

I love the place so much that I was able to visit 3 of their branches in a span of a week! I suggest that you visit them, too!

No Coffee For You!

I swear, I just love these kids! Especially Sophia Grace, she cracks me up! I wouldn't mind having kids around the house if they're as charming and chatty as these two. The first time I saw them on Ellen, I just fell in love with them. Their shopping spree video was oh so hilarious. Sophia Grace kind of reminds me of my younger self. Although definitely with less energy, I would sing or dance in front of people without too much prodding. If we had Youtube back in the day, I would've caused my parents a bigger headache!

Move

I've been itching to travel again. It's been two years since I've been out of the country and I am in dire need of a trip.

And then I find this video.


MOVE from Rick Mereki on Vimeo.


Argh, I really miss travelling! If only I could get paid travelling, my life would be complete.

Missing Home

I just saw this TV commercial and it made me miss my Papa.



Just like the girl in the TVC, my Papa stayed home more than my Mama did due to work. And at home, it's my Papa who cooks not my Mama. So basically, a reversal of roles.

Although this seems an odd setup, it works for my family. Who said that it's the woman who should stay at home while the man earns a living anyway?

I am just very grateful that I lucked out in the parents game. I got the best parents ever! =)

P.S. The storm's still raging and I am missing home more than ever.

Public Commute: NAIA Terminal 3

I went home to Cebu last weekend for a friend's wedding. I almost didn't, because I was on a really tight budget and the quick trip would definitely cause some damage to my bruised wallet. But I'm really glad I did!

Anyway, as I said I was on a tight budget, so the P700 something I shelled out just going to Cebu (for the 2 taxicab rides and the airport terminal fee) bore quite a big hole in my pockets.

That's why I was quite anxious about my return trip. Firstly, I hate riding taxicabs in Manila. Some drivers are choosy, they ask you where you're going before they even let you get in. They can refuse a passenger or try to negotiate a fixed price with you, depending on the distance or how heavy the traffic is going to your destination. And I really hate this about cab drivers.

Secondly, I live quite far from the airport and I'm not very familiar with my way going home. And again, one of the many taxicab horror stories is that at the first sign that you're not sure where you're going, the driver intentionally takes a longer route so you end up paying a lot more.

And thirdly, because of the distance, I would definitely be paying a lot for my cab ride home. I wanted nothing of that nonsense on a very early, sleep-deprived Sunday morning.

Good thing I discovered the NAIA Terminal 3 Bus Loop! You just need to go to the south side of the Arrivals area and you'll see the cue for the buses. I lined up for Route 2, which ends up in a bus terminal in Pasay Rotunda, right beside the MRT/LRT station (MRT Taft Station and LRT EDSA station), so you can easily take the MRT or LRT afterwards. And the best thing is that they only charge you a good P20 flat fee for the ride! Neat, huh? So in all, I only spent a total of P50 for my way home.

I'm so happy with this discovery, that I've been telling my friends about it. You should, too!

Etiquette For Tourists

Just chanced upon this article awhile ago and I agree to pretty much everything Jessica wrote about how we are that welcoming towards foreigners, it's somewhat funny. And I totally agree that etiquette should be followed by anyone who's a guest in another country.

Jessica Zafra: Etiquette for Expats, Tourists and Other Visitors to the Philippines

Welcome to the Philippines! You’ve probably noticed that Filipinos are friendly, accommodating, and nice all around. For starters we are always smiling. It is not true that we are always smiling, but it is likely we do it more than your people. This is because it is so much more pleasant than frowning or scowling.

And people generally look better when they’re smiling, no? Here in Manila there is so much aggravation to put up with. It’s sweltering even when it’s rainy, the traffic is horrendous, it’s noisy and poverty is widespread. Smiling is the last thing one feels like doing under these circumstances. If you think about it, smiling in these conditions is a form of protest. It is a way of rising above the situation. It is not, as you might think, a vapid reflex.

Your people probably have a lot more to smile about than we do. They should smile more, it would make them look younger.

Right now we’re smiling at you because we are curious as to what you, a foreigner, are doing in our country. Are you a corporate executive, a chef, a diplomat? A retired soldier fetching your fiancée whom you met online, or a Brazilian model? A Peace Corps volunteer or an NGO worker? A tourist drawn by our famous beaches, or just looking to get laid? Filipino curiosity is insatiable. We have to be in the know. We don’t even have to do anything with the knowledge, we just have to know.

No doubt you have been told that we pride ourselves on our hospitality. Our hospitality is not a PR thing; it is genuine. We are glad that you’ve come all the way here—we like having guests. You are someone new to talk about. Entertaining others entertains us. And since you’ve taken the trouble to come all this way, we figured the least we could do is prepare this basic guide to help you get acclimatized.

1. Our beaches are renowned the world over for their powdery white sands, brilliant sunshine, and the spectacular biodiversity in the water. Beaches, as far as we know, are on the seashore. When you are more than ten kilometers from the sea, say, in the shopping and office complexes of Makati and Mandaluyong, don’t feel compelled to dress for the beach.

We assure you that we natives won’t feel ill at ease if you don’t wear your loosest tank top, ratty board shorts and crumbling flip-flips while walking around the mall. Don’t dress down on our behalf; we do like to dress up. We think it is a way of showing respect not just for the occasion and the setting, but for yourself.

2. It is hot and humid in Manila so we sweat a lot. In order to stay cool and refreshed we take baths or showers every day, if not two or three times a day. If those of us who were born and raised here find it hot, it must be positively infernal for those of you from America, Europe, Australia-NZ and the temperate zone!

You must shower every day, if not several times a day. For maximum refreshment we recommend generous applications of soap, shampoo, and antiperspirants. Just dousing yourself in cologne is not enough to cool you down. Take a shower every day, you’ll feel so much better.

We insist.

3. The Philippines is a former colony of the United States, and English is taught in our schools. We watch Hollywood movies and American television programs, sing popular songs in English, and visit websites in English. Plus millions of us have relatives in English-speaking countries, and we are the world number one in voice-based call centers.

So there is no need to express profound surprise when we speak to you in English. Please don’t tell us, “But your English is so good!” Yes, we have English. And indoor plumbing, electricity and wi-fi, and we don’t actually live in that treehouse, it’s decorative.

4. From childhood we have been trained to do things for each other. We do this without thinking—our programming is so thorough. For instance if the friend of a friend is looking for a particular type of bread that is not available in stores, and we know someone who lives near a baker who produces that bread and sells it at an organic market, we will obtain that bread for the one who’s looking. It’s no big deal, it’s the way we were brought up. We are not currying favor, we are not sucking up, we are just being helpful. It’s our culture.

So if we go out of our way for you, it’s not because we think you are the Big Kahuna or because we want something from you or we think you are wonderful. We do it because we were brought up to be caring and considerate, and it is considered selfish and unfriendly for us not to do it. Plus if our mothers find out that we did not help when we could have, we’ll never hear the end of it. If you are suspicious about accepting our generosity, know that we’re really doing it for ourselves. It is not a sign of weakness; it is one of our strengths.

5. If you consider the Philippines a shithole cesspit backwater, please do not feel compelled to grace us with your presence. Certainly we will miss the pleasure of your company, but we will manage somehow. We were born here and have lived here all our lives; this is our home. We presume your homeland is not a shithole cesspit backwater, so we are mystified as to why you would choose to be here when you could be there. Surely someone of your magnificent qualities and impressive qualifications would be appreciated and rewarded in your own country?

6. It is true that lots of Filipina women prefer foreigners over their own countrymen. For some it is a matter of true love triumphing over ethnic and cultural differences. For others it is a matter of economic necessity. It may be useful to remember this when you are swarmed in red-light districts by exotic women cooing at your manliness. We are bound by very strong family ties—children are duty-bound to give financial support not just to their parents but to entire villages of relatives.

7. Your dollar/pound/euro/other foreign currency goes a long way in the Philippines, allowing you to enjoy a higher standard of living than what you would have back home. You can afford a lifestyle that is luxurious compared to the average Filipino’s. We hope you will not confuse the foreign exchange rate with personal merit. Unfortunately the Philippines is not a meritocracy.

I had to laugh at one of the readers' comment. He said the writer should surround herself with positive people to make her happy so she can write happier articles. Or something like that. Obviously, he doesn't know Jessica Zafra.

A New Discovery

I have proven that it is true that you learn something new everyday.

These incessant rains (thanks to the back-to-back typhoons hitting the country the past 3 weeks) not only caused havoc to my shoes, but it also brought to my attention a new discovery.

I just got home from work and coming up our apartment stairs, when I heard a very strange sound. At first I thought it was of several cows mooing. Lotsa cows. But that was impossible because one, it sounded a bit high-pitched and two, there couldn't be cows near the area because we're in a residential village and nowhere near any grazing field.

So when I brought it up with my brother, he said that we were actually listening to the melodious mating call of frogs/toads. What?!?! At first I couldn't believe him because I thought he was making it up. I mean I've heard frogs croak before and it and didn't sound like that. Anyway, I decided to research to satisfy my highly inquisitive mind and I found out that he's right.

To those who haven't heard a horny toad's (pun intended) call yet, it sounds very much like this:



Now multiply that by a hundred. Yup, disturbing.

I'm just glad I never saw any of those frogs as I kinda don't like their kind. They make me squirm. Good thing I wasn't that girl in the story, or else the prince would have remained a frog forever.

Agosto

It's August 1 today and I can't believe almost a year (in 4 days) has passed since I moved back here in Manila.

To say that the past year has been very challenging is putting it mildly. But I think, despite all the hardships, I've learned the lessons I needed to learn. Kung hindi pa naman ay ewan ko na lang.

Now, I'm just looking forward to some happiness for the rest of year. Pang-Christmas gift na lang.

P.S. Sorry to be such a Debby Downer, but the nonstop raining (8 days and counting) has made my usual crappy mood crappier.

Modern Family

They are definitely my current favorite TV family. Everyone's so funny and the situations they find themselves in are hilarious. Phil Dunphy's 'peerenting' style and his endearing ways make him my favorite! He and Claire make such a perfect pair (oy, nag-rhyme). I love Cam too, for his flamboyant gay ways. And to think he's the straight one in real life. Manny's such an adorable kid, acting beyond his years and being the voice of reason among them.

They're such a great cast and they make my Saturday afternoons light and filled with laughter.

A Traveler's Lost Faith

Such a tragic experience. I would never wish for this to happen to anyone.

Read on.

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 30

Day 30 - Your Favorite Song At This Time Last Year

Okay, finally made it to the 30th day.

I have a lot of favorites last year and this was (and still is) one of them.



Special shout out to my brother who celebrates his birthday today!

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 29

Day 29 - A Song From Your Childhood

On my way home from work today, I heard this blasting from a sari-sari store's radio. Nice to hear it again after decades! Although I'm not so sure what it means to 'sing and romance on my cha'...

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 28

Day 28 - A Song That Makes You Feel Guilty

OK, I can't think of any so I'll just post this one. I love Barbra, though!

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 27

Day 27 - A Song That You Wish You Could Play

Like most people, I went to piano lessons when I was really young. But because we didn't have a piano at home, my dreams of becoming a concert pianist died a natural death.

I'd be ecstatic if I can play and sing this:

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 26

Day 26 - A Song That You Can Play On An Instrument

In high school, I used to play for the school's drum and lyre corps. I really wanted to play the snare drum but a friend convinced me to audition for the lyre instead. (This friend switched to the drums, and I got stuck with the wimpy lyre. But that's another story.)

To the uninitiated, this is how a lyre looks like. But technically speaking, a lyre is a stringed musical instrument and this one's apparently called a glockenspiel. It's probably called a lyre here because it's mounted in a lyre-shaped frame.

So, going back to the theme. I learned to play a few songs with it such as the Lupang Hinirang (our National anthem, which we play every morning during the flag ceremony), the Top Gun theme (somebody uploaded a video tutorial in Youtube on how to play it on the piano, which is basically the same as playing it on the lyre.), the Indiana Jones theme, and Head Over Heels by the Go-Go's.

This never fails to get people groovin'.

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 25

Day 25 - A Song That Makes You Laugh

This never fails to get a laugh out of me!

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 24

Day 24 - A Song That You Want To Play At Your Funeral

Wala lang. Let's see ano'ng magiging reaction nila.

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 23

Day 23 - A Song That You Want To Play At Your Wedding

I will definitely have these two songs played at my wedding:

As I'm walking down the aisle, a string quartet plays Pachelbel's Canon in D Major...



And then for our first dance, Etta James will be crooning in the background.



Obviously, I haven't given much thought to this!

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 22

Day 22 - A Song That You Listen To When You’re Sad

The last time I felt sad, I was listening to this. Total self-pity.

But I guess I should've been scared, since this song was used in that 70s horror flick, Carrie.

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 21

Day 21 - A Song That You Listen To When You’re Happy

When I'm happy or want to be happy, I just listen to some dance songs. Especially those with dance steps (which I know by heart, of course)!

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 20

Day 20 - A Song That You Listen To When You’re Angry

I just listen to some Jack Johnson para ma-relax. Ahh, chillaxin' in the beach...

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 19

Day 19 - A Song From Your Favorite Album

I bought a cassette tape of Eraserheads' album Circus when I was 15. I saved up my lunch money because I really love Eraserheads and they're one of the best bands ever!

I remember a classmate borrowed it, and never returned it to me.

Heartbreak.

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 18

Day 18 - A Song That You Wish You Heard On The Radio

It'd be nice to have heard this song on the radio this morning on the way to work. Just to 'wake me up'.

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 17

Day 17 - A Song That You Hear Often On The Radio

This is such a fun video! I couldn't stop laughing at Katy Perry as Kathy Beth Terry! It's such a riot seeing 80s icons Kenny G, Debbie Gibson and Corey Feldman make a guest appearance. I also can't get over how big the Hanson brothers are now.

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 16

Day 16 - A Song That You Used To Love But Now Hate

I liked this song back when I was in college and in ultra emo mode. Now, I just find it super gasgas.

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 15

Day 15 - A Song That Describes You

I was torn between this and this. Although, I can also be described as this.

But I decided to settle for this because this song says it best.

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 14

Day 14 - A Song That No One Would Expect You To Love

I'm sure not many people know that I just love Edith Piaf! And other foreign songs for that matter. Yes, even Korean songs.

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 13

Day 13 - A Song That Is A Guilty Pleasure

I know you might think I'm a bit old for some Miley Cyrus. But I don't!

So I put my hands up, they're playing my song, the butterflies fly away...

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 12

Day 12 - A Song From A Band You Hate

I don't really hate Aegis, but you won't hear me playing their music on my iPod. But their songs are definitely fun to sing on videoke night.

This particular song gets my sister especially when I bust out my dance moves while singing along.

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 11

Day 11 - A Song From Your Favorite Band
The Beatles is definitely one of the all-time best bands in human history. Even after more than 40 years, their words and music are still very much alive today.

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 10

Day 10 - A Song That Makes You Fall Asleep

When I come home late from work and want to listen to some music before dozing off, one of the songs I listen to is With You I'm Born Again. The fact that it's in my iPod's Playlist titled 'Sleepy', just proves how effective it is in... zzzz....

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 9

Day 9 - A Song That You Can Dance To

Another hard one!!! How can you choose just one song from a childhood filled with dance icons such as Madonna, Kylie and Beyonce?? Not to mention the Spice Girls, N'Sync and the Backstreet Boys?? (Sorry about the multiple punctuations.)

But in the spirit of fun and ka-baduyan, I am sharing with you Stars by Simply Red. And yes, I'll be dancing along ala Universal Motion Dancers!

All In A Day's Work

I was going through some old pics in my Multiply and I found this video clip, it's from the farewell video we shot for a boss. Back then, we used to create videos for colleagues who were resigning or celebrating a milestone. But when more and more people started leaving, I guess we just couldn't keep up so we stopped doing them altogether, haha!



After watching, I suddenly missed the old team. Sure we were all stressed out, working until late in the evening, but we still managed to keep it fun. It's always a blessing to find people you get along with in the workplace. And an even bigger blessing to call them your friends. =)

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 8

Day 8 - A Song That You Know All The Words To

This one's a toughie! Growing up in the era of song hits, videoke and MTV, it's hard NOT to know all the words to a song. (Whether those words are correct or not, is irrelevant hehe.) And of course, putting a song on loop in your iPod makes it much easier for one to memorize the lyrics.

But for today's feature, I'll go against my usual pop choices and pick a song from one of my favorite plays, 'Miss Saigon'. I really love the part when Kim and Ellen sing I Still Believe. I get goosebumps listening to the duet of Lea Salonga and Claire Moore!

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 7

Day 7 - A Song That Reminds You Of A Certain Event

Okay, what I'm about to tell you is the perfect pang-blackmail story. So if you think you will hate me in the future, better pay attention.

It was the early 90s and the music group Smokey Mountain was at their peak of popularity. (O, Smokey Mountain pa lang giveaway embarrassing moment na!) Their songs Kailan, Can This Be Love and Mama in their first album were all chart-toppers. (I bought a cassette tape of this album, haha!) Then they released their second album, Paraiso (Paradise), which had their catchiest and most masa song: Da Coconut Nut.

One Saturday afternoon, I was home just chillin' and listening to the radio. The DJ then announced that they're giving away prizes to the first person to call the station and sing Da Coconut Nut on air. I don't know what possessed me to ring them up and croak out "It's the coco fruit, of the coco tree, from the coco palm family!" for all the city to hear.



Just so you know, the 'prize' consisted of canned goods and packs of noodles. Parang feeding lang, haha!

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 6

Day 6 - A Song That Reminds You Of Somewhere

Bantayan Island, 2009. It was Independence Day weekend so some friends and I decided to head off to the beach and get some deserved R&R. And the song for that trip was Nobody But You by the Korean girl group Wondergirls. At that time, the country was just beginning to catch on the Korean pop fever, so you still won't hear it playing on every corner store's radio. That's why when I heard its catchy tunes, my gay friends and I had to learn the dance steps, thereby making it our official summer dance soundtrack.

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 5

Day 5 - A Song That Reminds You Of Someone

When I was around 7 or 8 years old, we had a yaya named Berta who had a cleft palate. She was a big girl with extraordinary strength. Now that I think about it, she's somewhat like Coach Beast in Glee. Despite her speech impediment, she's very confident and liked to sing a lot. And one of her favorite songs was Eternal Flame by The Bangles.

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 4

Day 4 - A Song That Makes You Sad

I'm basically not a person who easily gets sad. I like lots of sad songs like Adele's, but they don't necessarily make me sad. Anyway, if I'm in the mood for some 'emo' time, then I listen to the soundtrack of the movie Il Postino. Most specifically the album where artists read Pablo Neruda poems with the songs as background. Oh, so heartbreaking!

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 3

Day 3 - A Song That Makes You Happy

Everybody needs a little Ke$ha to start their day. I don't know, but as soon as I hear the opening line "Wake up in the morning feeling like P. Diddy" my body just starts moving to the beat. Singing and dancing to Tik Tok drives the blues away!

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 2

Day 2 - Your Least Favorite Song

Okay, one song that really makes me cringe is Aking Awitin. It was originally sung by Bong Gabriel, then re-released by Side A. I mean, the song itself is ok. The lyrics talk about a guy who can't profess his love for a girl so he puts it in a song. Pretty decent, right? But when you get to the chorus, you get a stanza-full of 'Lala lala la, lala lala'. Seems like the songwriter ran out of words.

And I guess the embarrassing event of how I came to know of the song, is what really made it cringe-worthy!

30 Day Song Challenge - Day 1

So I saw this challenge on Facebook, and decided to jump in on the craze. It's a great way to reminisce about stuff =)

Day 1- Your Favorite Song

I don't have just one favorite song, I have lots and lots and it depends on my current mood or state of mind. So right now, my favorite is Bruno Mars' Count On Me. I just love the song's message and I dedicate this to my one and only sister, who more often than not acts like she's older than me.

Products I Totally Swear By

I was recently looking for a good salon to have my hair colored and a colleague recommended her friend's salon. I asked her if she had her hair done there, and she sheepishly said she's never been there because the place is a bit pricey. O...kay.

I'm a bit choosy in the salons that I go to, especially when it involves cutting or coloring the hair, a manicure and pedicure. I rarely speak up when the salon person starts hurting me or cutting my hair way too short. That's why I always depend on friends' referrals before I try any new salon or any new product for that matter.

That's why I thought of listing down some of the stuff I have been using and really believe in. But let me make this clear: No, I did not hit my head and started thinking of myself as a celebrity endorser. On the contrary, because I'm just your average Jane, you know that I have not been paid to write about them. I am and have been using these products for years, and I would like to share them with you because they really work!

1. Eskinol Facial Cleanser
This has been part of my daily routine since I was probably 12.
PLUS: I have never been pimply (thank goodness!), but I noticed that whenever I get pimples, Eskinol helps get rid of them right away and even pimple scars disappear. I use it after washing my face, and with all the pollution I have to face everyday, I really feel much cleaner.
MINUS: It tends to dry the skin so I think using it once or twice a day is enough. And as usual, you need to apply moisturizer. Speaking of moisturizer...


2. Celeteque Moisturizer
I've been using this for more than 3 years now.
PLUS: I love this because it's water-based so it's not at all sticky. I hate the oil-based ones cos it feels like my skin can't breathe. I also use Celeteque's facial wash and toner, so I buy their travel pack which includes the miniature-sized trio.
MINUS: Um, can't think of any.


3. Contractubex
When I had my freaky bike accident 4 years ago, which left my face and legs scarred for life, I used this magical gel religiously until the scars are barely visible.
PLUS: It really, really works! People don't notice the scars near my eyebrow until I point them out.
MINUS: The small tube's way more expensive than a tub of Sebo de Macho.


4. Max Factor Second Skin Foundation
This was introduced to me by my gay friend, who uses more facial products than I do and spends more time in the bathroom than I do.
PLUS: It is a great cover-up for any blemish or pimple scar. It's a liquid foundation but it's not oily so your face gets that perfect matte finish. Just a few drops, you will achieve that fresh-faced look.
MINUS: The only downside, I think, is the price. A bottle costs almost a thousand bucks, so if you're the type who liberally applies stuff in your face then it will be hard on your pocket. But if you're a cheapskate like me, a bottle could last you a few months or so.


5. Dimetapp Decongestant
I use the syrup kind, and not the tablet one. Until just recently, I can't swallow medicine tablets or capsules because I feel like I'm gonna choke or something. So I still drink my medicine using a spoon. =)
PLUS: Kiss your sniffles away after just a few hours of drinking. You will really feel your nasal cavity slowly clear up.
MINUS: It makes you really drowsy. Which is good, because you need to have that restful sleep. But if you were planning for an all-nighter then forget it cos this will really knock you out. Good thing though, is you will feel very much refreshed when you wake up.


These are just some of the products I really believe in. Will post more as I remember them. But for now, maybe you can share with me some of yours?

The 5 People You Meet in Commuter Hell

One of the things I hate most in the world is taking the public transportation. I mean, what's to love about pollution and absence of personal space? But ever since I got here, I had no choice but join the rest of the commuting public. To make my daily sacrifice bearable, I've resorted to (if not daydreaming) observing the people around me and I've noticed that almost everyone belongs to these 5 types:


1. Noddy

Noddy is that toy with springy neck so he looks like he's always nodding. If you don't know him, think animal toy with a wiggly head propped on a taxicab's dashboard.

Noddy's that passenger who immediately nods off to sleep as soon as he settles in his seat oblivious to everything that's going around him. But the amazing thing is, Noddys exactly know when to wake up. I think they have developed this sensor that alerts them when their stop is near.

There are worse kinds- the Leaning Towers and the Droolers- but thank goodness I've never sat beside them!


2. The Juicer

The jeepney or tricycle's full. The Juicer comes in, inserts between you and another passenger, and squeezes the life out of you. You try to scoot a few more inches lest he/she sits on your lap, and you're forced to sit half-assed in a very awkward position.

I mean c'mon, it's bad enough that you're sharing a cramped space with strangers early in the morning, and someone decides to squeeze in and leave you breathless, hanging onto dear life.


3. Mad Max

Dance or rock music's blaring from the speakers way too early in the morning. It's chest-thumpingly loud that I'm afraid that my heart might get confused with the different rhythm and it literally skips a beat.

And bad news for you if the jeepney doesn't have that string or button to signal the driver to stop and pull over. Then you'd have to resort to wild waving, beating your chest and shouting "Para!" at the top of your lungs just like Tarzan.

Worse yet, if the driver thinks he's in the Indy 500 and feels like racing against any vehicle on the road. It's particularly infuriating when they start driving off (at a maddening pace, mind you) before your ass even touches the seat or before you've properly alighted.


4. Deadma

Originating from the term 'patay (dead) malisya', the word means ignoring someone or something. These are the rude people who pretend they're busy or deaf or whatever, that won't even make an effort to turn around and reach out to pass your fare to the driver. I mean, how hard is it to raise your arm a bit and do something nice for a fellow human being? Those flabby arms need a little exercise every now and then, you know.


5. The Bulldozer

Or you can also call them bump cars. Whether you're walking on the right side of the walkway or just standing aside, they have no qualms in ramming down anyone blocking their crooked path.

Suffice to say, all these people have not made commuting for me any easier. But they definitely make my daily trips more 'interesting'.

Rain, Rain, Go Away!

I'm writing this at home, on the third day of crappy stormy weather. Our village has been flooded- submerged in at least 12 inches of murky water.

I called in sick today but I couldn't really relax and get some rest because the non-stop raining is making me nervous. I get up every few minutes and check the water level outside. Good thing we're staying on the third floor so we're basically safe. But the images of destruction that Typhoon Ondoy caused two years ago, keep me feeling restless. And worse, that typhoon pretty much had the area I'm living in now, looking like the ancient city of Atlantis.

Although I was not yet here when it happened, but the horror stories of the victims and images in the news are enough to leave one scared of unrelenting heavy rains. The government's weather bureau kept reassuring everyone that Typhoon Falcon won't be another Ondoy. Still, one can't help but be praning.

The news reports that a lot of families have already evacuated their homes to seek higher (and safer) ground and more are still stranded in the streets. I just hope everyone keeps safe and that this God-awful rain goes away real soon and never to come back again.

Soundtrack Sunday - Adele

I first heard Adele singing "Chasing Pavements" and I have loved her since then. There's a certain sadness to her lyrics, and the way she sings them conveys that sadness very well. Her voice has that quality that grips at the heart and reminds you of past hurts.

Or maybe that's just me. Anyway...

Her album 21 was definitely not a letdown. If anything, it showcased her talent even more and you can hear that her voice has matured a lot, making the songs even more heart-breaking.

Of course, the most popular song there is "Rolling In The Deep" but my current favorite is "Someone Like You". Relate much? Haha, not really.

Soundtrack Sunday - Lazy Sunday

Gosh! Another month is about to end, and I've not written anything decent at all. Been both busy and lazy at the same time, if that makes any sense. The start of the rainy season is not making thing any better.

Speaking of lazy, I've found another song for bed weathers like this. I'm currently drumming my fingers (too lazy to bop my head) to Bruno Mars' The Lazy Song.



I say 'another' because my ultimate lazy song's Jason Mraz's Sleep All Day.



Ahh, to be young and lazy...

Proud of My Filipino-English Diction

It's already May, four months have passed and I haven't done much writing. A lot of things came up lately so I haven't been really able to sit long enough to come up with anything decent.

So, in the tradition of 'copy and paste', I'd like to share with you an article I got from a forwarded email. It's of a speech delivered by Rico Hizon, a Filipino anchor for BBC World News.

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Being Proud of our own Filipino-English Diction
by Rico Hizon
(Delivered during Toastmaster International's District 75 Annual Conference in Manila)

Every single day for the past 10 years on BBC World News, over 350 million people from all over the world wake up to the sound of my voice.

What I say can make or break their business. How I say it, however, will affect how they will react - whether to stay calm or panic.


DELIVERING THE NEWS

Delivery is key.

Apart from having complete, accurate and relevant information, the news must be read clearly to ensure that it is easily understood.

And for that, I am grateful for my education from the Philippines. Tubong Maynila po ako! I was born, raised and educated here in Manila. Hindi po ako nag-aral sa Amerika o sa UK.

Hindi po ako nag Cambridge o Harvard.

I learned to speak well and clearly thanks to the patience of my parents, siblings and my teachers at La Salle Green Hills and De La Salle University. My looks and my diction often leave people wondering about my nationality.

On many occasions, I've been asked if I'm a western-educated Chinese, Singaporean, Malaysian or even Indonesian.

They wonder because of my eyes, skin color, and the way I speak English. I guess you can say its Pinoy super power.

We have the gift of languages. But what sets us apart is how, with any language we use, we are able to speak it clearly.


PAN-ASIAN DICTION

The Filipino diction is - clear, simple, neutral, easy to understand.

The Filipino enunciates clearly, pronounces every syllable in a pleasant --- even --- and non-threatening tone modulated for every ear to capture its essence….

And when we speak English, for instance, it is neither American nor British English.

It is a Pan-Asian diction. It does not pretend to sound western but both Asians and non-Asians can easily comprehend what is being said.

There are a variety of accents speaking the English language and there is no need for the Filipino to imitate … the American, British or whatever accent just to say its proper English.

We have our very own, and that is what makes us a cut above the rest. And that's why I am where I am. It's because of the Filipino English diction.

People often mistake the American accent for good diction. And yet, there is no real American accent because there is the Southern drawl, the Texas twang, and a host of so many others ….

It is too, difficult to keep track….

But that's beside the point.

Someone pointed out, we are Filipinos. We don't have to speak good English.

But don't you think it's amazing that we do, despite the fact that we're not? (Think about it)


EDUCATION

During my time, English was the medium of instruction.

When I graduated Grade School in 1980, High School in 1984 and University in 1988, majority of students could carry a very decent English conversation, because during my generation we had very good teachers who encouraged us to speak the language fluently.

We either spoke in English or we spoke in Tagalog.

Mixing them up into Taglish was unacceptable. Even earlier, during my parents' and grandparents' time, the country had citizens that were very good in English regardless of their educational attainment because English was widely and strictly used.

But today when I look around me and speak with the youth, I think we are dwindling race. English as a second language of Filipinos is fast deteriorating.

In fact, it has become a third language after Filipino and the more widely spoken Taglish. Not many can speak at least two or three sentences of straight English.

Worse, the diction is twisted to favor a twang often taken as a sign of being sosyal or wealthy.

And believe me, nothing could be further from the truth.


MEDIA

The media has played a major role in the inability of many Filipinos to speak English well.

TV programs these days are all in Taglish.

Even the news is no exception. What do we do? How do we stop the spread of "Here na me, where na you?" and "Yes, op kors, dats rayt"

And it also does not help, that when people text or sms, the language and the writing is inappropriate.

And thus their inability to learn correct spelling, impacting their ability to communicate clearly and correctly - whether it be in English or Tagalog.

The key lies in recognizing that proficiency in communicating in English is indispensable.

Speaking in English is not unpatriotic.

We are not less Filipinos for mastering another language.

We are only making good use of our gift for languages to forge ahead. English should be the medium of instruction in schools.

Spoken in the presence of trained teachers, children will learn to speak fluently and clearly, because when we master one language, whether it be English or Tagalog, we prepare our youth to challenge themselves to stretch and excel in their language skills, and basically, setting the foundation from an educational perspective.

There should be more English television programs such as documentaries and talk shows on commercial/terrestrial television with at least one dedicated English newscast.

Such shows these days are all on cable channels and are beyond the reach of the less privileged. It is also equally important that we Filipinos read English text more often. Doing so further improves the grasp of the language. Nowadays less Filipinos read and enrich the mind through books, editorials or websites.

And because of this, poor reading skills translate into poor writing and poor diction.

Indeed, sometimes the answer truly lies in reading between the lines, as well as from cover to cover.


GLOBALIZATION

In this age of globalization, it is inevitable that the Filipino will interact with peers and colleagues in the international community.

We can rightfully expect to hear even more accents, even more variations of the English language.

As such, this should spur our youth to even greater heights, to cement our place in the international scene as the most skilled, in communicating in the English language.

You have to give it to the Pinoy, we are still the best English speakers on this side of the planet.

So I believe, it is time to stand up, stand out, speak proudly as a Filipino and be heard across the globe loud and clear.

I know I did! Live from the Toastmasters International Conference this is Rico Hizon reporting. Proud to be Filipino! Proud of our Filipino-English Diction! Mabuhay ang Pinoy! Mabuhay ang Pilipinas!

Countdown to The Script

Three more days until The Script's concert here in Manila! I can't wait to see them and sing along to their songs.



I gotta problem, though. The Man Who Can't Be Moved is the only song of theirs that I had memorized. I guess I'd have to resort to humming along.

No To Animal Cruelty!

I've always been an animal lover and I can't believe there are people who could be this cruel! No living thing deserves to be treated this way.



I've only watched a couple of minutes into the video and I couldn't bear to see more. I hope Sushi takes a bite off that ugly hand. Makabawi lang.

Hello April!

It's April 1 and I'm so excited that a new month has started!

Firstly, today officially marks the start of summer. It's just a bummer that I'm not in Cebu right now so I can go hit the beach every weekend. Such a shameful waste of perfect sunny days.

And I've got a couple of events lined up for the month! (For a change.)

On April 10, I'll be watching U.P. Samaskom's annual LIVE A.I.D.S. production again, after more than 10 years. I know that it'll be a good one, after getting a sneak peek last February during the org's fund-raising event and! It's the first time they're doing a musical! Exciting!

Then, my most-awaited concert event of the year happens on the 16th-- I'll finally get to listen to The Script live! Yipee! Can't wait to sway and sing along to their songs at the top of my lungs!

Holy Week's also coming up on the third week, so I'm looking forward to a couple of days' break from work. And there's a possibility that the 'rents are coming over and we all go to Bicol for a quick visit. Great!

So it seems that I've got a happening month ahead of me, and I just love it! =)

Last 3 Firsts

Finally!!! I was able to finish my list but barely meeting the deadline.

First Thing # 28 - Attend a Ting Hun

Last month, I got a text from my friend, Ailee, inviting me to her and Jon's ting hun. I didn't have any idea what a ting hun was, but I said yes to the invitation. I later learned that it's basically a formal Chinese engagement party.

However, due to tradition, lots of preparation goes into it. According to Kasal.com, both families prepare traditional gifts for each other such as jewelry, cake, fruits, etc. Then the bride has to serve tea to the groom's family in order of seniority.

So what was our role in all of this? Nothing, really. (The guests were seated at one side of the room, while the formal ceremony was going on.) Main requirement is that we enjoy ourselves and celebrate this wonderful event with the couple.

First Thing # 29 - Contribute to a Daily or Magazine
I've written articles before for the school paper, but this is the first time I've tried submitting something for a widely-read magazine, such as Reader's Digest.

It's nothing major and I'm not even sure I'll get published, but here's what I submitted:

It was our father's birthday, so we all went out for lunch. Except for a brother who was not able to come home for the holidays, all of us children were with him in the car.

He then got a text message, which read: "Happy Birthday, Pa." He wondered out loud, "Who could have sent this?"

Told you nothing major, haha! But it'd be really cool to read my name in the magazine one of these days.


First Thing # 30 - Take a Walking Tour of Binondo

For my birthday, I decided to do something different: roam the city streets. I'm really not a fan of going to unfamiliar parts of the city, much less using public transport to get there. However, I promised myself that I will try to see as many places in my own country this year.

So my brother and I decided to go to Binondo and walk around Manila's Chinatown. It's the first time I've been there so we went on a food trip and also visited some of the old churches in the area. I was a bit tempted to ride in one of the horse-drawn carriages, but I had to take pity on the horse who'd feel the full force of my weight.

To me though, walking around the area also felt like walking back to history. Back in the Spanish times, it's the place where the Spanish permitted the Chinese mestizos to stay and it also used to be the center of financial community. I just love going to a place where history meets the present.

Visiting Binondo is not just the only First Thing I did today. It was also my first time to ride the LRT-2 from end to end, and it was also the first time I rode in LRT-1.

The best thing I've learned from this whole experiment/experience is never to fear going out of your comfort zone as it opens yourself up to more learning opportunities and expands your horizon. Life is short and we really need to live it to the fullest.

Here's to more new and exciting things in the coming years! =)

Going Beyond Earth Hour

I've been a staunch supporter of Earth Hour since 2009. Many people think that it's a fruitless exercise because it's just an hour in a year. But I feel that's better than nothing. However, now I think it's time that I go beyond the hour if I really want to help save Mother Earth.

So here are small acts I promise to do (or continue doing):

1. When eating take-outs, I will not use plastic utensils and drinking straws unnecessarily.

2. I will continue to throw garbage in its rightful place. I will keep my trash until I find a trash can.

3. Use more scratch paper and envelopes at work.

4. Keep walking.

5. Bring my own bags when shopping/doing groceries.

Hope everybody comes up with their own lists. These may be little things, but they add up to a great thing if we all do it together.

Soundtrack Sunday - Rocketeer

I'm sorry if I've been too lazy to write something more meaningful lately, but I guess I'm just in a phase where I'm too lazy to do anything and at the same time too listless waiting for something to happen. Not sure if I make sense, but that's how I'm feeling now.

Anyway, here's a song I've been into lately. I just love the lyrics:

"Here we go, come with me
There's a world out there that we should see
Take my hand, close your eyes
With you right here, I'm a rocketeer"





It tugs at my adventurous, wanderer heart. I guess that's it. I've been hit by the wanderlust fever again.

Tara Nang Mag-lakbayan!

Oh gosh, I just took this 'quiz' to test how much of the Philippines I have visited. And I got a dismal grade of C!

I can already hear the disapproving voice of Susan Calo-Medina: "Huwag maging dayuhan sa sariling bayan!"

Yes, I know it's really embarrassing to have only visited a few places in my own country. But compared to the rest of the Filipino population, I think I kinda fared well. I mean, most of them don't even know their basic Philippine geography. Sheesh.

Anyway, I promise to do better. I'll take it one city/province at a time. Stay tuned!

Full of (Hot) Air

OK, so this wasn't my 2nd to the last installment after all. But I wanted to post this lest I forget to do so. Besides, a post with the last 3 First Things seems a better idea.

First Thing #27 - See hot air balloons in person.

So we woke up really early on a Sunday to watch these hot air balloons take flight. Wait, scratch that. We didn't wake up early, we didn't sleep at all.

Since they were scheduled to take flight around 5:30am, my friend and I decided to watch a late night movie at 11:30 the previous night (we watched 127 Hours. Major eew!), pick up our other friends at 3am then head off to Clark.

Well, the Hot Air Balloon Festival didn't start promptly. Shocker! I think it's because it's still too dark and cloudy for them to fly the balloons? But that's just my theory. We were getting sleepy and hungry (the cool, early morning breeze didn't help), so when we heard the National Anthem blasting from the speakers, signaling the start of the fest, I felt a rush of excitement!

We didn't get to see the balloons up close since we're not too keen on squeezing our way through the huge crowd that showed up that day. But they looked good anyhow, from where we were standing. It's just a shame that for one to ride in one, you have to pay $150! Gosh.

Anyway, all in all it was a good way to spend a pre-Valentine weekend. Who wouldn't want to see Darth Vader up in the air?

2nd To The Last Installment

I hate that I've been really sluggish in completing this list. I've less than a month to go, and I need four more to reach the finish line!

First Thing #24 - (Willingly) sport bangs.

I say willingly because I've had bangs before, back when I was still a toddler and could be bullied into any hairstyle my parents feel like. I'm sure all girls (and some boys?) my age have had the 'apple' haircut at one time or the other. It was all the rage amongst us 80s kids.

Anyway, so last December, I decided to have my long-overdue haircut and instructed the Korean stylist to give me bangs. A new look for the new year, ika nga. I felt really queasy while he was cutting away my precious hair, because I was afraid to look like an ensaymada. Thankfully, I didn't and I thought it kinda looked good.

But now I've grown tired of the bangs and couldn't wait for my hair to grow back. I remember now why I didn't want one in the first place: my hair covering my face. A face like this needs to be seen! Harhar.

First Thing #25 - Codename: Pepino.

This one's sorta X-rated, so I won't expound. Let's just say this had something to do with a bridal shower. Eew.


First Thing #26 - Eat tempura.

Well, ebi (shrimp) tempura, that is. Since I'm allergic to seafood- shrimp, squid, crab- I've never tried eating it. People have always commented that I'm missing half of my life because the allergy, especially being born in a country with overflowing bounty of the sea. But I've never really felt that way because I've eaten seafood before (how'd you think I found out I was allergic?) and I don't recall going gaga over its taste.

However, when we tried this new Japanese restaurant last Monday, I decided to finally try the tempura. I was armed and ready with my Claritin and Coke Zero. I didn't expect much from it, but I was pleasantly surprised with the taste. It was very delicious, the shrimp meat was ultra soft that it kind of melted in my mouth.

After that wonderful experience, I will definitely eat tempura now. But probably only in that restaurant. For now. =)

Just My Luck

Q: What's worse than a jejemon?
A: A jejemon working in the government.

It's not a secret that government employees are not my favorite people. Let's just say that all of my experiences dealing with government offices have been downright nasty. They've all been very consistent in giving incredibly bad service, that the one time I sorta had an uneventful-bordering-on-pleasant experience, I nearly died of a heart attack.

Anyway, so today I had another memorable conversation with one of our esteemed civil servants. As a backgrounder, I asked a messenger to send some documents to this 3-lettered office. I addressed the envelope to an officer who previously received documents similar to the ones I was sending, a couple of days ago. The messenger returned in the afternoon, with an unopened envelope and a scribbled mobile number. He said that the guy was asking why I addressed the envelope to him, if I knew him, and that I should call him instead. So at this point, I was already somehow pissed because it was really important that the documents be processed today.

I dial the number, and the honorable officer answered, 'Eyo powz?' WTF!?! If I had someone read my blood pressure that very second, I probably would have made the medical journals.

So I tried my hardest to compose myself and ask him in perfect English if I could speak with Mr. So and So. He immediately reverted to a professional manner and I just continued to speak to him in English. I asked him why he had me call and if there was anything wrong with the documents I sent. He just said that he wondered why I addressed the envelope to him, and how come I knew his name. So I told him and also repeated my question about the documents. This is the killer answer: he doesn't know because he didn't check them. Before I could stop myself, I retorted, 'So you didn't open the envelope??'

I won't write here the rest of the conversation but you can already guess that I was fighting a losing battle. It's bad enough that he works for the government, he had to be a jeje too. So fun.

P.S. For those wondering who or what is a jejemon, here is a Wikipedia definition. I can't believe they made it to Wikipedia. Sheesh.

Reading the Stars

I'm fond of reading horoscopes just for the simple fun of it. I love reading descriptions of my Aries/Monkey personality and learning who I'm compatible with. Like everyone else I guess, I like knowing what the future holds for me. I mean I don't consult it before I make any big decisions, I'm more of a 'selective' believer. I only believe it when it gives me good news. =)

So just for the heck of it, I'm posting here what will happen to me this year. Let's see if they will come true.

Here's what the Western horoscope has in store for me in 2011:

Year 2011 Overview
Out with the old matrix and in with something totally different -- with trailblazing Rams leading the way as usual. It's all about the new in 2011. Others will take their cues from you especially when Uranus follows Jupiter into Aries in March. You won't have a second to forget that you're the consummate pioneer of the zodiac. With Jupiter and Uranus tag teaming it in your constellation, much new ground needs breaking in 2011. You'll barely have a second to rest and process all the brand spanking newness that has become part and parcel of your everyday life. Long-distance travel, philosophy, higher learning and experimentation are all par for a very exciting course as this mighty year unfolds.

Expect a birthday season to remember with lucky Jupiter and life-changing Uranus working wonders in your fiery stars. Your innate go-getter instincts are off the charts. As the spring season gets underway, life hits maximum speed (sleep, what's that?) May Day alert: Circle May 1 on your calendar with a big red sharpie, Rams! An explosive amount of Aries planetary energy abounds as six -- count 'em, six -- planets traverse your incendiary corner of the zodiac simultaneously. This includes Moon, Mars, Venus, Jupiter and Uranus all rallying for your cause. Age of Aquarius themes pop up as Jupiter in fact does align with Mars on this very powerful day. Every second counts and actions speak infinitely larger than words.

Summertime brings Jupiter's jackpot in your money sector. Expect a nice fattening of the piggy between June and December with incredible opportunities to make the big bank. Love, pleasure and romance hit a high note in late September. Venus brings the beauty and love to your partnership sector while Mars simultaneously brings the sparks to your romance sector. Long-distance travel and adventures galore take precedence in November. While in December professional responsibilities will demand the majority of time and energy. But if you're willing to go the extra mile, your status could easily skyrocket.
And here's what the Chinese have to say:

Monkey Overview
If last year was a whirlwind, you might need to hang on for another wild ride. In the Year of the Metal Rabbit, things will probably ebb and flow without much warning. You'll have to buckle down and do some serious planning in order to get the most out of 2011, and you might be in for a challenge. You have plenty of ingenuity and flexibility, so call on those strengths when things get sticky. The Rabbit favors peace and order, which could clash with your love of fun and games. Use your favorable months to get ahead and lay low during the unfavorable ones. You might not have a blockbuster year, but there are lessons to be learned. Seek out the moral of the story and try to live by it.

Monkey Career
If other things are shaky this year, work might be a solid foundation to stand on. While I wouldn't recommend rocking the boat, stay proactive at the office and offer to take on more. You might have to put in overtime, but your dedication won't go unnoticed. Try to stay put for now, even if you're restless. Can you make your cubicle more entertaining? Bring some headphones to work and get inspired by some tunes. Buy donuts and bagels for your co-workers. Chummy up with your colleagues at office outings. Anything you can do to make work more fun will probably help you stay productive.

Monkey Relationships
The land of love may be rife with conflict this year. The Rabbit loves to be adored and indulged, while you think such things are a bit frivolous. Your partner might have a laundry list of demands that seem ridiculous. Are you just going through a rough patch or are your differences too much to handle? Consider compromise before you go making any rash decisions. It could be you need to be more sensitive this year. Your jokes and Monkey antics aren't understood by all. If you're single, someone might feel like getting serious with you. Are you ready? Make a pros and cons list before you go signing any marriage licenses or mortgage papers.

Monkey Health
Remember that children's song about monkeys jumping on the bed? You might be the first one to fall off this year, so make sure you don't bonk your head. Take care of your health so you don't end up missing out on play time. Are you putting off a doctor's visit? Do you need a teeth cleaning? Better to get it out of the way now rather than wait until it gets worse. The Rabbit's fondness for staying home might not sit well with your active nature. Make sure you get outdoors enough. Stale indoor air can be ridden with germs, so open plenty of windows and clean your surroundings with eco-friendly products. Take up tap dancing or salsa lessons to spice things up when you're in a funk.

Monkey Wealth
Money matters might look brighter than other areas of your life in 2011. Your sign's element is Metal, which bodes well for you in a Metal year. There will be a lot of Triple Metal days to look forward to, which means the element of our year, month and day all align. Mark those on your calendar. While you might not see the tangible rewards yet, your efforts now will bear fruit later. Make sure you're saving a percentage of each paycheck. You could meet with some unexpected expenses this year. Try not to spend on frivolous things. Create a working budget and do your best to stick to it.

By the way, both were taken from the Yahoo! astrology page to get a good comparison. But it seems that the only common denominator is that I'll get loads of money in 2011. I can't complain to that. Bring it on! =)

Mind Your Manners

I'm sure most of us have known these things since we were little kids. But apparently, some people grew up in the jungle together with Tarzan, that they need to be taught these few basic rules:

1. When you cough, sneeze, or burp, please learn to say 'Excuse me' and always cover your mouth! It's bad enough that you're making those disgusting noises. Don't shower us with your germs, too.

2. Always say 'Thank you'. And this should be replied with, 'You're welcome'. Say 'I'm sorry' when you bump into someone or accidentally step on their foot. Don't pretend like nothing happened. 'Thank you', 'You're welcome', and 'I'm sorry' -- Learn these words by heart.

3. Don't talk when your mouth is full. No, that's not multi-tasking when you chew and speak at the same time. We really don't want to see how efficient your incisors and molars are in grinding food.

4. Don't be a litterbug. If you throw something on the street, a housekeeping fairy won't clean up after you and make your trash magically disappear. The world is not your own personal garbage can, so stop acting like it is.

5. Practice some elevator courtesy. Let those getting off the elevator (or lift, if you want to be all British) pass first before you go barging in. There's nothing scarier than being met by a mob in a tiny, enclosed space.

6. If you can help it, never be late for anything. Who wants to be a lady-in-waiting? No one.

That's all for now. But you bet I'll add more to this list in case I bump into those people who have either been raised by wolves or grew up in a bomb shelter.

And They're Back!

I have always been a Jamiroquai fan, from the moment I heard (and saw the MTV of) Virtual Insanity. Love Foolosophy, You Give Me Something and Alright are just some of my favorite songs of theirs. Their music is just so cool! You just can't help but groove to the beat.

And now, just a couple of hours ago, I read in the airline magazine that they've released a new album. Two of the songs are White Knuckle Ride and Blue Skies.

So I listened to White Knuckle Ride first, and I go 'Yup, this is them alright.' It's unmistakably Jamiroquai but a bit more mature. And it's a good thing, like catching up with an old friend you haven't seen in a long time.



Then I listen to Blue Skies. Now, this one really surprised me because it sounded more pop and ballad. Ish. A little different than what we're used to hearing from them, but still very nice.



I'm just so happy they're back and hopefully they're here to stay.

01-01-11

As this is the first day of the year, I will start it right by writing my 2011 year-end goals:

1. Weighed X lbs lighter. It's a yearly promise but I intend to keep it this time as I'm not getting any younger or healthier.

2. Saved at least PhpX,000. This is for my future studies and European tour. Of course this would also mean I've already zeroed out any outstanding credit.

3. Read more. Books, magazines, newspapers- anything to prevent brain atrophy.

4. Wear more make-up. Or more specifically give more attention to my appearance. I've never been a girly girl or been really fussy about how I look, but I guess it's time that I start becoming one. I refuse to sport the 'Stressed Out Spinster' look this year. Or ever.

5. Be more adventurous. In my career and in love. I suppose I've always been a passive spectator to my own life, but not anymore. I need to grow up and take charge of my own life if I want anything great to happen this year.

That's all. I won't promise more than I can keep. I'll go back to this list at the end of the year and see if I was able to do all of them. =)

Hope this year brings everyone much love, peace and happiness that they deserve!